A) Try to be someone you think they'll like.
B) Show off your accomplishments excessively.
C) Outshine your boyfriend.
D) Be yourself and respectful.

A) Assume they will love you.
B) Stalk their social media profiles extensively.
C) Plan elaborate gifts to bribe them.
D) Ask your boyfriend about their interests.

A) Talking about your exes.
B) Complaining about your job.
C) Discussing controversial political topics.
D) Asking about their hobbies or interests.

A) In whatever makes you feel most comfortable, regardless of appropriateness.
B) Neatly and appropriately for the occasion.
C) As if you're going to a club.
D) Provocatively to get their attention.

A) Send a thank-you note or message.
B) Send an expensive, extravagant gift.
C) Ignore them until the next planned visit.
D) Immediately start planning the next, bigger event.

A) Change the subject abruptly.
B) Roll your eyes and dismiss their opinion.
C) Listen respectfully and offer your perspective calmly.
D) Argue aggressively to prove your point.

A) Ask them questions about their lives and experiences.
B) Interrupt them frequently.
C) Talk only about yourself.
D) Avoid eye contact completely.

A) Ask for something else entirely.
B) Refuse bluntly, saying you're on a diet.
C) Accept graciously, even if you're not hungry.
D) Complain about the ingredients.

A) Controversial or overly personal topics.
B) Their family history.
C) Your career aspirations.
D) Your love for your boyfriend.

A) Ignore him completely.
B) Publicly criticize him.
C) Show affection appropriately and respectfully.
D) Act like you barely know him.

A) Avoid the question entirely.
B) Fabricate extravagant lies about your success.
C) Answer honestly and realistically.
D) Say you haven't thought about it at all.

A) Pretend it never happened.
B) Acknowledge it with a smile and move on.
C) Dwell on it and apologize profusely.
D) Blame someone else.

A) Sit back and do nothing.
B) Make a mess and leave it for them to clean.
C) Complain about the state of their house.
D) Offer to help with chores or dishes.

A) Listen to their perspective and acknowledge their concerns.
B) Start an argument about their son.
C) Immediately defend your boyfriend without listening.
D) Criticize your boyfriend to agree with them.

A) Staring intensely.
B) Maintaining eye contact and smiling.
C) Avoiding all eye contact.
D) Frowning constantly.

A) A gag gift that could be offensive.
B) An extremely expensive and lavish gift.
C) A thoughtful, small token of appreciation.
D) No gift at all.

A) Tell them they don't know what they're talking about.
B) Dismiss their advice immediately.
C) Argue about why their advice is wrong.
D) Listen respectfully, even if you don't agree.

A) Never show up at all.
B) Very important; arrive on time or slightly early.
C) Intentionally arrive extremely late to make a statement.
D) Unimportant; being fashionably late is acceptable.

A) Get angry and defend your boyfriend aggressively.
B) Share even more embarrassing stories about your boyfriend.
C) Change the subject immediately.
D) Laugh along respectfully and avoid sharing your own embarrassing stories about him.

A) Overstay your welcome for hours.
B) Leave abruptly without saying goodbye.
C) Express your gratitude for their hospitality and say you enjoyed meeting them.
D) Complain about how much you disliked the visit.

A) Never, they are being gracious hosts.
B) When you see an opportunity to assist.
C) Demand they let you help immediately.
D) Only when explicitly asked, with reluctance.

A) Ignore him completely.
B) Act equally strange to match his behavior.
C) Be understanding and supportive.
D) Call him out on his behavior in front of his parents.

A) Show curiosity and respect.
B) Criticize the traditions and say they're weird.
C) Refuse to participate.
D) Act like you're above them.

A) Take deep breaths and focus on being present.
B) Talk incessantly to avoid silence.
C) Drink excessively to calm your nerves.
D) Avoid eye contact and fidget constantly.

A) Complain about your family and their flaws.
B) Share positive and appropriate information.
C) Invent elaborate stories about your family's accomplishments.
D) Refuse to talk about your family at all.

A) Formally until they invite you to use their first names.
B) Avoid addressing them by name at all.
C) Refer to them by nicknames they haven't offered.
D) Immediately use their first names.

A) Never offer your opinion at all.
B) Constantly offer your opinion, even when it's not asked for.
C) Argue your opinion aggressively, even if it's irrelevant.
D) When asked directly or when it's relevant to the conversation.

A) Speak positively about him and support his interests.
B) Constantly criticize him in front of them.
C) Ignore him completely.
D) Brag about how much better you are than him.

A) Be respectful, genuine, and interested.
B) View them as an obstacle to overcome.
C) Try to change yourself to fit their expectations.
D) Focus solely on impressing them with your accomplishments.

A) Make a joke about being clumsy.
B) Apologize sincerely and offer to replace it.
C) Blame someone else for breaking it.
D) Pretend it didn't happen and hope they don't notice.